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In life, one of the most important
choice you will need to make is who
to marry. This choice is so important
that if you miss it, you will suffer for
long, if you get it right then you will
enjoy forever. A bad marriage can
affect every other area of your life.
This subject is so important to the
extent that so many married people
are hoping to be single again so as
to be able to make the right choice
all over again. If you are single
don't just be in a hurry to get
married, because you still have the
best opportunity to prepare for it.
For two people to come together to
live in peace and harmony, they must
agree spiritually, mentally and
physically. Just like an elephant
cannot marry an ant so also a
believer cannot marry an unbeliever.
If an elephant marries an ant how
would they live, if a goat marries a
fish where would they meet? You
must look for a sincere and righteous
man or a sincere and righteous
woman to marry, nothing can beat
this. The devil's primary target is the
family. He knows that everyone
belongs to a family and if he can
bring two wrong people together in
marriage, then he will succeed in
breaking the community ties and the
nation down as a whole, and this is
part of what we're witnessing all over
the world presently.
Ignore your age and the pressure for
a moment, the pressure in a wrong
marriage is far worse.
ALLAH has somebody for you but
you must set your priorities right.
What do you need in a woman? What
do you need in a man?
Marriage is not about what you want,
it is about who you need, that will
make you better while you make him
better, it's not something u just jump
into. That is why you must know your
purpose before you get married.
You must pray before you choose.
ALLAH knows the best person for
you, it is only wise to seek His will. It
is very easy to know ALLAH'swill
when sex is not involved. The
moment sex is involved and you want
to know His will then He will blank
you out. Why? Because you have
broken His first Law of NO SEX
before marriage. If you have had sex
in the past then you need to repent
totally and stay away from each
other, then you can seek forgiveness
from ALLAH Your marriage will not
be hell on earth. Your marriage will
be honourable.
Don't marry for sex, don't marry
because you are of age, don't marry
because you are getting old, don't
marry because you are lonely, don't
marry because you need someone to
support you financially, don't marry
because you mistakenly got
pregnant, don't marry because you
don't want to lose the person, don't
marry because of family pressures,
don't marry because you like the idea
of marriage and admire every
wedding gown you see, don't marry
because all your friends are getting
married. But get married because you
want to fulfill what ALLAH has
ordained on every slave of His. Get
married because you want to be a
help mate, but most of all, because
you want to fulfil a purpose of having
completed half of your religion, your
deen. ALLAH will help you in
choosing, please let's all continue to
pray pervently to Allah for all we want.
He loves us so dearly and he will
answer all our duas and
supplications at the right time.
Forward to all singles you Know.

# MuftyInKano

Few Lines From His Today's Lecture:

"When I heard I was coming to Kano, I said Masha Allah. Kano is a place I have always wanted to visit."

"When I was young, I heard negative things about Nigeria but as I grew older, it was different, Nigeria is full of good people."

"If your age happens to be with two digits,you are part of the youth."

"We are not preaching against culture, but when it clashes with Islam,we have to disapprove it."

"If culture is making it hard for you to marry,u need to know there's a problem, go back to Islam."

"'What does he have?' this is the question most women asks wen people seek their daughter's hand in marriage,stop! This causes fitna in the ummah."

"When a woman dresses bad in miniskirt, exposing her cleavage, she attracts a player, not a husband!"

"Fulfill your Salah (prayer), your chastity, your dress code, your character, make yourself good and Allah will help u in all your affairs."

"If a doctor tells you to do this or that, you listen to the doctor, but the Prophet (saw) asks us to pray Salah, but we neglect."

"Develop your character, worry about the future, be honest, learn to do things in the correct way, work hard, you can't be rich overnight."

"The music industry has turned to pornography, and they say it is just music, it is a door to evil, stay away from it."

"Wen we have a disagreement, we should never resort to violence, we should solve it In a civilized & intellectual way, let's not kill ourselves." wedding dresses for older women

"It is a waste of time to be with ur phone for longer than necessary, marriages have broken because of this!"

"Don't lament over the past in the way that it stops you from progressing to the future."

"If you live a life according to what He wants, He will give you a life when you die according to what you want."

06.02.2016 CE